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Stay In Your Lane...

Many people look at others lives and they want what they have...now!
Don't Veer of your own Path...Stay In Your Lane!
However, they fail to consider the process of what someone had to go through to build, grow or have the success and the things that they have. We look from the outside and say, " we can do that!" However, truth be told, we fail to do due diligence, or understand that there is work involved. There is nothing that comes easy for someone. Sometimes our dreams lay dormant for a long while until we wake up or become awaken to them. We have to make a decision to put in the work.

I see people chase after other people's dreams, well if they can do that I can do it too. We are immersed in a copycat whirlpool, where everyday someone decides to copycat the other because they feel that they can do it better! Don't get me wrong, I am not talking about people who have legitimate goals, dreams and plans for their lives. I am talking about those who want to live other people dreams rather than their own, just because it looks easy to do and you can make lots of money doing it. Many people jump into something that is not where they should be and when they find out it is not as easy it looks, they get frustrated and consider themselves as a failure.

Listen, you are not the failure, you just happen to have veered in the wrong direction and took on something that was not for you. You walked off your own path and went towards a different path that you were unable to conquer...Stay In Your Lane!

There is territory available for you to seize, conquer and control. This territory is connected to the gift(s) that is placed inside of you. Your gift, talents and abilities will make room for you. The timing of getting where you need to be is all up to you. I often say, don't despise small beginnings, a seedling  placed in the ground, starts off small but with time and nourishment , it begins to grow and becomes a great tree...Don't Despise the Process!

The process is what is needed to make you into the person that You want to be...the person God needs you to be. This person you should become is valuable and has a distinct purpose. The gifts that are given to you is to support this purpose. Any success you have is wrapped in your purpose. Many times we often forget that and get defeated and discouraged within our process, but do not verge or merge left or right...Stay In Your Lane!

I know it is easier said than done but imagine not using your gifts to your full potential and living your life at half cycle and not full cycle. Imagine going after other people dreams and not your own. Imagine trying to live someone else's life, that you lose sight of your own. Live your own life. Walk your own path in the direction you need to go. Dare to go full cycle and full throttle ahead but keep yourself centered and never compare yourself with anyone. It's your lane and you decide the pace that you need to complete it. Simply remind yourself that you determine what you need for your life, because oftentimes than most...we forget that!

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