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Heart 2 Heart (What's Love Got to Do With It)

MATTERS OF THE HEART
Here's a different kind of post and it is straight from my heart...

I don't know what makes a person fall in love, but one thing is for certain it is a great feeling.
What I don't understand is how one can fall in and out of love as time passes, but maybe we all believe that we understand what love is all about and then realize we don't have the slightest clue. I am convinced that love is just as complex as it is simple but I am sure critics would argue with me on that.

Since, it is the "Love Month", I thought I'd focused on matters of the heart. I found myself in a peculiar position as a single who recently broke up from a long-term relationship and now in the process of discovery and rediscovery. I've got questions, how soon after do you fall in love? Is there a time limit? Is it love or a rebound thing? I wonder!!!

I am beginning to understand that God is truly a God of Wonders and does the most amazing things. I just know that heartache is never easy but God always has a remedy or a cure for heartache. I know this because while you are not looking, God is working behind the scenes and sometimes he may work quickly or he will allow you to wait things out. But whatever it is, God understands your need for love. He understands that one of the essential needs of humans is to be loved. I am sure of it.

And though you may be single, you don't need to think that love is evading you. One thing that I've learned is that you have to be open to receive, even after someone may have abused your heart and not appreciate the gift that you are. It is true is that someone's loss, maybe someone's treasure.

The one that walked away, broke your heart, and could not appreciate how special you are and how much love you had to offer ends up being the biggest loser especially when you are the one that loved with pure intentions. This tells me that they are truly broken, insecure individual with no understanding of what love really is. Many people claim to feel love, to be in love but really do not have an inkling what love is...
Truth is...I'm learning and still open to learning this and more...

So, who knows you may end up being someone's treasure. You may end up finding someone who would dare show up at your work unannounced to just see you, or call to find out if you need anything, or even when they are tired find the way to your house to just to bring something to help you treat the common cold. You just may find the one that would stop what he or she is doing to call to make you laugh because you were having a bad day, or encourage and inspire you to be more than you are, take chances and be bold daring and confident. You may find that one who is understanding where you are in your life and rooting for you to succeed. You just may find love right after a bad episode in your life, much sooner than later!

And the question is in matters of the heart...What's Love Got to Do with It?

The answer is...EVERYTHING!

Unveiled to Be Transformed!
-Keisha

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